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This is something I encounter quite a bit when dealing with purity - does it mean you have to be naive?
I think it depends on what naive means to you. Generally a "naive" person is thought to lack wisdom or experience. They don't know very much about the world, and can be viewed as an "easy target".
So in my opinion, no. Purity doesn't mean being naive.
It means being innocent.
Yes, there is a difference. An innocent person shows wisdom. They know that the apple of temptation, while it looks beautiful, is rotten on the inside!
Innocence is a choice.
You make a commitment to keep yourself pure. You have wisdom - when the wrong guy comes knocking, you have the discernment (developed through time with God!) to say no.
In the very same way that Snow White was too naive to see through the witch's friendly demeanor, sometimes people who make that choice to stay pure can become an easy target.
Does this mean purity is a weakness?
No! It doesn't!
When you make that commitment to remain pure (or become pure - Jesus has made us as white as snow!) you allow yourself to be separate from romance and relationships until it's the right time. When the right guy comes into your life, you'll know.
Until then you have the benefit of a clear head and a heart focused on the Lord - you can make better decisions!
Be smart when dealing with guys. Keep those accountability partners in your life - an indifferent party is invaluable. They can see the things that your feelings have glossed over. They also should have that benefit of years of wisdom. Think of them as the watchdogs. When the wrong guy comes along you have someone who can help you discern.
Girls get into trouble because they try to go it alone. Even the strongest people need their backup. As you are developing this wisdom, have someone in your corner. That someone could be your parents, pastor, mentor, or an older, trusted Christian. They can look out for you - it makes your job so much easier!
Purity doesn't have to mean inexperience. You just know that those "experiences" are worth waiting for. Use these single years to gain that wisdom and discernment - when your mister comes along you'll be so ready for him.
Be blessed today!
I think it depends on what naive means to you. Generally a "naive" person is thought to lack wisdom or experience. They don't know very much about the world, and can be viewed as an "easy target".
So in my opinion, no. Purity doesn't mean being naive.
It means being innocent.
Yes, there is a difference. An innocent person shows wisdom. They know that the apple of temptation, while it looks beautiful, is rotten on the inside!
Innocence is a choice.
You make a commitment to keep yourself pure. You have wisdom - when the wrong guy comes knocking, you have the discernment (developed through time with God!) to say no.
In the very same way that Snow White was too naive to see through the witch's friendly demeanor, sometimes people who make that choice to stay pure can become an easy target.
Does this mean purity is a weakness?
No! It doesn't!
When you make that commitment to remain pure (or become pure - Jesus has made us as white as snow!) you allow yourself to be separate from romance and relationships until it's the right time. When the right guy comes into your life, you'll know.
Until then you have the benefit of a clear head and a heart focused on the Lord - you can make better decisions!
Be smart when dealing with guys. Keep those accountability partners in your life - an indifferent party is invaluable. They can see the things that your feelings have glossed over. They also should have that benefit of years of wisdom. Think of them as the watchdogs. When the wrong guy comes along you have someone who can help you discern.
Girls get into trouble because they try to go it alone. Even the strongest people need their backup. As you are developing this wisdom, have someone in your corner. That someone could be your parents, pastor, mentor, or an older, trusted Christian. They can look out for you - it makes your job so much easier!
Purity doesn't have to mean inexperience. You just know that those "experiences" are worth waiting for. Use these single years to gain that wisdom and discernment - when your mister comes along you'll be so ready for him.
Be blessed today!
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